Thread: Burlesque and Dating!

Originally Posted by Ginger La Rouge

Soooo,

I met someone rather nice when I was performing at the Ringside Revue in Hull a couple of weeks ago and I can now happily officially call him my boyfriend hehe! Just when I'd more or less given up all hope!! I know it's only been a couple of weeks but I'm so happy! yay!

xx

Ooooh, how fabulous....yaaaay for you Ginger.

kisses
PixieParasol

Originally Posted by PixieParasol

Ooooh, how fabulous....yaaaay for you Ginger.

kisses
PixieParasol

Aw thank you hun! It's so awesome that I met him at a burlesque show, as it means he 'gets' it and is cool with it and I don't have to arkwardly try and explain my hobby mid-date or anything!!

There's hope for us all. Hehe!

xx

That is great news!

Does that mean there is hope for me and you to find someone Pixie?! I won't hold my breath on my account but looking forward to hearing about everything happening with you.
xx

Originally Posted by Ginger La Rouge

Soooo,

I met someone rather nice when I was performing at the Ringside Revue in Hull a couple of weeks ago and I can now happily officially call him my boyfriend hehe! Just when I'd more or less given up all hope!! I know it's only been a couple of weeks but I'm so happy! yay!

xx

Good for you girl. Go for it and be happy. Bests wishes:hug: lol xx

Aaw that's fantastic Ginger! I'm so pleased

Oh no! Well I hoe it works out. I have the opposite probblem. No one I meet wants kids.

I broke up with my last fella because of it. But Im just not gonna worry to much about it, and I'm sure things will work out.

Originally Posted by PixieParasol

Ooooh, how fabulous....yaaaay for you Ginger.

kisses
PixieParasol

Seconded - I'm really happy for you Ginger! :hug:

Nice to hear that the Ringside Revue was a great night in more ways than one!

Yay for Ginger...

But seriously, why are men so scared of Burlesque Dancers?! Much love for all of you femme fatale single victims

Well here goes...

I've been single for almost a year now.

I've dated LOADS of guys from ones into burlesqur to others who have never even heard of it and I have met men in loads of various ways (myspace, dating websites, clubs, through friends, work, etc etc).

Generally I tend to fine that men are intimidated by me or else the ones that arn't tend to be loosers who mess me about

I'm so fed up of people saying to me "Loraine, why are you still single?" argggggggggh

I've just kind of given up trying at the momet. I hope that eventally I will find someone worthy of me


Back to the comment about dressing down.... I met my ex when I was hungover at a drawing class and looking like a total mess with no make up on or anything. We went out for about 6 months - he was 29 and I was the longest he had ever dated someone. I knew from the start he wasnt really the dating type but I hoped he would change but I just had to accept that it was him and not me when he finnished things.

Gernally I have found that guys tend to find me more attractive when i dont have more make up on and am more 'natrual or dressed down' although I am always honest with them form the start and am always myself.

Altough at the end of the day you have to be yourself and if someone is not willing to accept you for who you are then they are clearly not worth the effort.

Also I have never dated anyone who has been against me performing. I'm not sure if thats the guys i've picked or else once they get to know me they dont seem to be intimiated by it - I'm actually a really sweet, loyal, down to earth girl!! - and if a guy wasnt happy with me performing I wouldnt date them. simple as.