Thread: Spice up the bedroom

I know im on a burlesque site and it should be obvious how i can help myself, but i am nervous about doing anything burlseque. I wear the fashion...i dont do the dancing.

I'm scared incase my boyfriend is bored in the bedroom. I have tried to spice it up with stockings, corsets and my pole dancingheels ( i did it a few years ago) but i feel its getting old. Anything that maybe good that i can do to keep his attention. He lives in Liverpool (150 miles away) so i dont want him to stray...that sounds bad...I do trust him but my mind does trail off.

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ooooh, you shuld turn up at his house in nothing but a coat and heels, that will keep you on his mind for a long time!!!xx

I did once leave an envelope on my front door with his name on it. Telling him to come in, i had a blind fold at the bottom of my stairs and in the note told him to put it on. I then came down in a pair of white and navy pasties with anchors on them and stripey navy and white under wear, pale/white tights and red killer heels....he liked that

You're scared in case he gets bored? Has he actually said he's bored or are you worrying about something that might not even be the case?

What makes you think he's bored? Are YOU bored?
You can dress up in anything you like, but the sexiest thing you can do is show you are comfortable and confident in his company.
If the issue really is finding something new to do in the bedroom, buy Scarlet magazine and read it together. You won't be bored for long...
Lily x

I'm not bored.
He just doesnt seem as excited as he used too.

How long have you been together? The sad truth is, lust can wane. It doesn't mean he's bored of you or of sex, just that as far as priorities go it's not so high on the list. Dressing up only spices things up to a certain point. Maybe ask him if there's anything HE wants to try and listen with an open mind to what he has to say?