Thread: Why do women have to be such bitches

Originally Posted by Emerald_Ace

Someone likes to live dangerously!

Bungee jumping with razor wire while juggling hand grenades was getting old

Originally Posted by Lady Lena

You like to live dangerously huh Doctor ?! :warn: Dont make me threaten you and your waistline with cupcake pictures.

Nooooooo I can't afford the new jeans that would be needed at the moment

Originally Posted by evildrneil

Nooooooo I can't afford the new jeans that would be at the moment

Mwahahahaha knew that would keep you in line.

Originally Posted by Lady Lena

Mwahahahaha knew that would keep you in line.

It terrified me so much that I missed out an essential word from that sentence :help:

Originally Posted by evildrneil

It terrified me so much that I missed out an essential word from that sentence :help:

Thats ok, its the effect I have on people

Lady Lena X

Ignoring someone is definitely the best way to get to them.

There's this girl who my boyfriend met through metal gigs and mutual friends. I knew she fancied him because whenever he'd been to see a band and I'd say "who was out?" (not checking up or anything, it was an innocent question! :lol he'd say that he was talking to her and others for most of the night, but whenever I was out with him she stayed away (In fact the first night I met her, we went over to say hello, and she wouldn't even look straight at me, instead making some confused snotty comment when I went to the bar) until she was drunk enough to be brazen!!
Anyway a few months ago a few of us were out, and she'd had a few too many ciders, and decided that she pretty much wanted to sit on Liam's knee. He's a bit daft when it comes to women, and never realises when someone's flirting, but I think it was so obvious in this case that he just decided to try to ignore it out of politeness! I was talking to someone else at the time, deliberately sat with my back to this girl. In the end she got bored or passed out or something and went home, but the next morning when Liam turned his phone on there was a text saying "what did Nicky say about last night?" He played stupid and said "what do you mean? what is there to say?" Apparently she was talking to him later that day online, too, and kept insisting "Nicky must have said something about last night. She must have said something!" She was really annoyed when Liam told her I hadn't said anything, and, more to the point, he didn't know what she was on about

I hate the mind games some women play, but then I've always had more male friends, even since I was in nursery. I think I like the simple life!

I agree- ignoring someone really is the best way. It really gets to them.

My ex and a friend of his once went on a huge session of slagging me off (I knew his facebook password and read his messages- wrong, I know, but still). After a couple of weeks he sent a drunken message to myself, her and another friend saying he wasn't going to talk to me anymore.

She replied, "forgetting" that everyone who was sent the original message would see her reply. It said "Hooray, the bitch finally got the message" (I think she misunderstood and thought I was the one saying I was cutting off contact).

I completely ignored it, and he got another message saying "I was just trying to get a reaction out of her. Bit annoyed I didn't".

I know I shouldn't have gone through his messages but meh. It just goes to show, if you ignore them they get really wound up and feel stupid.

I wish i could ignore bitches, i really do... at the moment the nasty Bitch in my life is driving me mad, persuading people who i thought were decent human beings to ignore me and cut me out. She has gone around telling people a completely made up story about me and i am amazed that people are sucked in enough by her to believe it! I know that if i ignore her then she has no ammunition unless she wants to make up another fairy tale about me! But it's so hard... i just want to shout it from the rooftops that this person is a deluded liar and expose her infront of all the people she's trying to suck up to!

With regards to the women who try to slime all over another girls boyfriend to provoke a reaction... this happens to me quite a bit... my other half's day job is a barman in a nightclub so that sort of environment tends to attract it. I am not very calm and measured in this area (understatement!)... several months ago my other half had a stalker, she hung around outside the club after closing waiting for him, hit on him every time she visited the bar despite him turning her down every time and then refusing to serve her and getting another member of bar staff to do it. She wouldn't take no for an answer... when she asked if she could come back to his for sex and he replied that he had girlfriend she said it was fine and that they could go back to her mates and do it on the sofa!
She managed to get his number by lying to one of his friends and then tried to convince my OH that he himself gave it to her and had forgotten!!!
Then the deluge of texts and calls began. In the end i called her and left a message in which i calmy but very firmly told her that this was embarassing to all involved and was going to end now.
She disappeared for ages but this this month she was back at the club whining about the 'mean and nasty message' i had left her... i still have her number... i'm sorely tempted to show her what mean and nasty really is!
I guess that would make me the bitch then! But in my defense she looks like a brunette Vicky Pollard!

Brunette Vicky Pollard! Classy stuff bet you felt threatened? LOl
I tell the bitch in my life is making me go nuts. First of all I wanted to be the bigger person and ignore her, then I changed my mind and demanded my partner confront her, now i'm thinking about jusst be super nice to her again!!

I don't know why this is getting to me so much. I think maybe because the ppl she's bitching about me to know her better then they know me so will believe her I guess. But when i look at the bigger picture, i know i shouldn't care because its only a small amount of ppl when the other girls at my partners work said they really liked me. Oh I don't know.

She's after your man. She works with him and not you, it's the only reason she'd be bothered about you. Take it as a compliment that you have such a desirable man and are seen as competition that must be eliminated ... and then ignore it, once she realises she hasn't got a chance with him she'll get bored ...