Thread: Really pissed off

I had an argument with a mate over myspace about how she basically ditched me in the third year of uni, and since then. Including the fact she deleted all pictures of me on her myspace, despite us being the best of friends apparently.

Then a certain performer who I won't name is now slagging me off over myspace about how I'm a twat etc.

Clearly expressing my opinions of upset is something I shouldn't do.

I'm really upset and gutted, someone who I don't know is now laying into me.

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Same thing happened to a friend of mine at uni, for no apparent reason this girl we had known from highschool just turned on her.

If there is bitching and name calling it's probably best avoided.

and for a performer to call someone a t*** is discraceful.

That kind of gutter mouth just destroys any hint of polished 50's glamour,
and just isn't clever or creative enough for anything else.

Try and rise above it honey, or call them back, ,,,, twatty whatty,
squeekie mc twat, mighyteous twattyious, ..... possibilities are endless. :lol:

Oh honey :hug:

To be honest, this performer doesn't sound too bright! If I saw a performer slagging someone off all over Myspace that would give me a very negative view of them. It's not very professional and it just makes them seem petty and bitchy. Which may well put promoters off.

(I actually have seen a performer slagging someone off anonymously over Myspace and I thought it was silly. Why not contact the person directly instead? And what's the point of doing it if this performer wasn't even going to specify who they were bitching about?)

Just ignore it hun. People like this usually want a reaction out of you and it confuses them when you don't. Trust me- I know this for a fact. (I saw a message that a girl sent my ex after slagging me off saying "I just wanted to get a reaction out of her")

Big hugs! :hug:

True there are some people who name call just to get a reaction, and when they don't they get pissed off and do it more untill there so annoyed at not getting a reaction they give up.

Another mate of mine had a little cyber bullying a while back from a friends girlfriend calling her all sorts becuase she took a disliking to there friendship.

F-ing fat bitch. Your so you fat.... insert playground taunt.

considering my friend was 8 months pregnant she was very proud of being a fat bitch. - :lol:

leave her to it. - ,

yeah don't call her fishy twat catch. or anything, that was purely sarcastic and for my own amusement.

Originally Posted by heathersweet

considering my friend was 8 months pregnant she was very proud of being a fat bitch. - :lol:

Hahaha what a stupid insult! :lol:

To be honest just be flattered that they have nothing more productive to do with their own sad life but sit around and think up immature ways to try and get to you, after all haters make you famous!

Just ignore her and rise above it hun, anyone that would rather hide behind their keyboard than say it to a persons face is clearly not worth your time or tears!

xx

I had this happen when a very vindictive girlfriend of an ex decided to bulletin hate mail about me all over myspace. She even cam eon here and was nice to me in threads then sent evil pm's.

Its hell but try as hard as possible to project an image of being more calm and more mature and that if they behave this way it won't affect you so they may as well give up.
Concentrate on the better loves you have and things you've achieved and view it as one stupid little mare who'll lose out in the end.

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Why is the performer getting involved?? Is it anything to do with her or is she just sticking her oar in for no reason?

In performing circles, reputation is everything. By slagging you off, especially over a situation she appears not to have any personal involvement in, she's tarnishing her own reputation. Don't worry about her - in a way she's fashioning her own comeuppance!

As for your friend, write her off as a bad loss. Just forget about her, and although it's hard, keep any opinions you have of her behaviour to yourself. Expressing your opinion is one thing, but in a tense and fraught situation, anything you say about her may be interpreted as bitching about her. It's safer to say nothing - that way you'll look like the bigger person because you won't have been seen to be nasty. If anyone asks about the situation, just say you're hurt and upset about it and don't know what you did to upset her. Politics suck - but sometimes you have to play the game ...

Thanks everyone for the advice. I'm currently in the process of deleting ex-friend and said performer from my friends list, and making it hard for said ex-friends to find me on Myspace.

The performer doesn't know me and hasn't met me, but happens to be mates with my ex-mate, and is as Fleur says sticking her oar.

I came very close to pointing out to her on myspace that use of such language could ruin her reputation.

It's so terrible when this cyber rubbish happens. Especially when it's from an old friend. Plus I was extremely pre-menstral today, which didn't help matters.

Earlier I was vowing to cry said performers name from the MOB rooftops, but I got over the initial anger.

Thanks again everyone, I really appreciate it.

xx

Exactly what Fleur said. I would loved to have put it as well.

Your uni friend - Unfortunately, that happens. Close the book on that one, it's her loss.

The Performer - wtf? However what goes around comes around/you reap what you sow. She is currently cultivating a reputation as someone who bitches about other people. Nice.

Rise above it Honey, and keep it dignified. You're a better person than any of them.