Thread: Anyone here know/is a dominatrix?

Knew that would get people’s attention! Haha! OK it actually is about dominatrix! A pal of mine has been playing with the idea for ages of becoming one but has no idea where to start (no it’s NOT me before you ask!) Tried google etc but not seemed to get anywhere. Is anyone here a – or does anyone know any – dominatrix she could chat to figure out what to do and how to go about training/getting in?

PM me if you do! Thanks!!! xx

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Do you mean professionally or in their private lives?

Either way you could point them at informed consent or possibly the Mistress Index?

Ah that's great thanks! I think she wants to go pro, make it a career. Good girl!! x

Oh heck............."Wants to be" a Dominatrix? Well, I have been one when dressed femme for some 35 years now. Being a "Domme/Dom is a LFESTYLE, one "does" it everyday, one dresses the part, just like Burlesquers do, or those into the C&W scene etc. First of all she had better get herself known on the decent dom web sites, then go to a few munchies and get a feel for the scene, the scene is in different layers or parts, does she actually enjoy totally and utterly humiliating another human to the point of the human being utterly servile and WILL do anything she asks? Does she enjoy seeing humans writhing in utter pain from being beaten, cropped, whipped, burned, raped etc? Could she walk into a room and find a woman or man hung in a whipping cross shaking in abject fear of what is about to happen to them, even though that person lives to be hurted? Or, is she only into the "lets dress up and play at it" with a wee whip and a leather skirt on? Is she into Leather boys/girls, pony boys/girls, ALL the fetishes like toe sucking, face siting, spanking etc?

I am not having a go, I am only saying what IS out there. It is NOT a scene where one just decides on Monday to be a Dom or Domme and wanders orf to find willing subjects.

And, one teeny weeny thing, how does SHE know if SHE likes it if SHE has never had it done to her?

Also, she needs to be VERY, VERY careful incase SHE becomes the servile one to a nutter for a few hours.

As for "googling", there is no upfront Dom/Domme in the country, including me who is going to allow her to do ANYTHING at a munch till she first finds out what she is looking for AND gets a wee bit of experience at what pain is and how it is used and for what it is used coz PROPER Domming is NOT to vent ones anger on a human for fun and laughs, it is an extremely personal and sexual thing.

I have two Sissy Maids who come here for spanking once a month, they dress up, they get examined to make sure seams are straight, shoes are the correct height, knickers are frilly, etc and so forth, then they do work as a maid for two hours, during this time they are on a points system directly relating to how many "Spanks" they get each for being naughty or having done something not to MY specification. These two people are rich, well known in a certain area and "need" to be humilated and spanked for being naughty to help them selves in their own heads.

And to finish with. There is a very large faction of males out there who are into the handcuffs and chamoi leather whips with the "Domme" dressed in boob tubes and sussie belts and high heels and a wee skirt. Sadly, there is also a small faction of "Burlesque Dommes" out there who reckon dressing "Burlesque" is the dogs bollox when pretending to crop some guys arse.

I do not kow if this will help your chum, but, do try to get her to go and find a local "Munch" (meeting of lifestyle Dom/mes) and have a look first. If she wants to she can email me and I will have a chat with her. purbeckphotoart@yahoo.co.uk

Ah thanks for that Minister! TBH, I know she's into the fetish scene, and has been at the hands of a Domme before, but she's not sure how to make the leap I guess. It's not something I really know anyting about, so I said I'd ask! That's for the email, I'll pass it to her!! x

Originally Posted by The Minister Of Magic.

Being a "Domme/Dom is a LFESTYLE, one "does" it everyday, one dresses the part, just like Burlesquers do

Ummm, no, not all of us burlesquers do, actually

Haha I can just imagine turning up to a school in full on burlesque gear! :lol:

Originally Posted by December Charm

Haha I can just imagine turning up to a school in full on burlesque gear! :lol:

Mind you December.......I sort of have that in mind!!! We are having a 'storybook character' day to coincide with World Book Day in March. PERFECT excuse for me to wear my 'Little Red Riding Hood' outfit, complete with full red petticoats and red patent heels!!!!!! Not sure if I will be taken at all seriously that day - mind you.....I never am so no change there!!!!!

kisses
PixieParasol

WOW!!!!

Can I get a one-day placement in your school? :lol:

Originally Posted by December Charm

WOW!!!!

Can I get a one-day placement in your school? :lol:

Ooooh....yes please!!!!!!!

Now.....which character could YOU be?????

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PixieParasol

ps - I do think I will need to get the OK for my outfit from the Senior Leadership Team first, but it's very sweet and not revealing so they probably won't envisage the full-effect until it's too late - muah-ha-ha *evil laugh*!!!!